Basic Human Instinct

Amid so much tragedy and conflict – I find this excerpt from the last page of Andy Weir’s popular novel The Martian especially uplifting.

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It’s hard sometimes to remember all of the people willing to line up to help when communities keep getting destroyed by natural disasters, lives continue to be lost at the hand of senseless violence, and political arguments divide nations across the globe. I often talk about how blown away I am by humankind’s capacity for kindness and generosity. When you see someone fall, you feel compelled to help them back up. I never forget the small gestures from strangers. From being prayed over late at night in the lobby of a hospital to an elderly woman paying for my bus fare while I frantically dug through my purse for change – These are things that you often don’t forget, that move your heart in the right direction.

As a highly emotional and empathetic person, I am often overwhelmed by these things. I gasp when a friend offers to help me move and rarely read a letter from my grandma without crying (Don’t think for a second that I’m not tough as nails – I’ve got thick skin but a big heart). The way Andy Weir puts it is very easy for me to consume – He has us look at the bigger picture and reminds us that human beings have a “basic instinct to help each other out.” 

Yes, there are assholes who just don’t care, but they’re massively outnumbered by the people who do.

Best Books of 2017

Reading has always been a very important part of my life. Here are some of my favorite books I read in 2017 when I wasn’t finishing up my degree at TCU and starting my full-time job at IBM.

The Martian

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If you don’t have an interest in aerospace and space travel, you will after reading this book. I have not seen the movie, but decided to try out the book. You’ll take more time to read about Elon Musk’s SpaceXand corner every aerospace engineer you meet to ask him more about just how plausible human space travel to Mars is. Weir puts his intense amount of knowledge on the material in layman-speak so we can all go to bed feeling like an astronaut.

devil 4The Devil in the White City

Aside from being from Chicago, I chose this read to follow more of serial killer H. H. Holmes – A character depicted in a recent season of American Horror Story. Before reading this book, I had no idea how significant the 1893 World Fair is to Chicago’s history or what a landscape architect was. Or just how risky and far-fetched erecting the world’s first ferris wheel was. Plus Leonardo DiCaprio purchased the film rights to the book and is teaming up with Martin Scorsese to recreate this pivotal moment in Chicago’s history.

The Glass Castle

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Like The Martian, I have not seen the movie, but would sooner re-read the book. This book is uplifting and devastating at the same time. I would love to meet Jeannette Walls in person. In her memoir, she shares her nightmarishly nomadic upbringing that did not prevent her or her siblings from going on to do great things. The intelligence and resilience of each of the Walls kids is nothing short of inspiring and impressive.

Postcards from the Edge

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R.I.P. to the beautiful Carrie Fisher – who wrote this witty and honest semi-autobiographical novel describing the trials and tribulations of the movie industry, drug addiction, and her rehab experience. Her narrative – while sometimes sad – was my favorite part. Fisher held nothing back in this book and you’ll find that you and Carrie have much more in common than you thought. One of my favorite quotes: “I shot through my twenties like a luminous thread through a dark needle, blazing toward my destination: Nowhere.” 

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The Tsar of Love and Techno

This book was beautiful and powerful. Marra introduces you to several interconnected characters living in different times in Russia. I learned a lot about how seriously propaganda was taken under Lenin and peaked in to the glamorous life of Miss Siberia. The message of the book is compelling and each storyline was equal parts tragic and lovely.